Quora | How can you keep your pa

Anonymous
Answered Oct 11
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If you are a girl:

• Let it go if he forget an important date because of his work.
• Never put him in dilemma to choose between you and his mother.
• Encourage him if he wants to take some risk (job/business) to fulfill his dreams.
• Never compare him with your male friends/ex.
• Get ready as he likes.
• Don’t start counting his weak points or failure during a fight.
• Send him a text to say I love you/missing you.
• Don’t punish him with silent treatment.
• Never talk about break up when you are angry or fighting with him.
• Be supportive of his me-time.
• Don’t share problems of your relationship with your best friend.
• Never compare his gifts with money.
• Let him watch sports.
• Put your mobile on silent, when you are hanging out with him.

If you are a boy:

• Be patient when she is on her periods.
• Always tell the truth, because when you lie she always caught you and it hurts more.
• Listen her with full attention.
• No taunting about her ex.
• Never stop flirting with her.
• Cook for her.
• Feed her with your hands.
• when she feels low, just hold her in your arms and kiss her on forehead.
• Spend time with her family.
• Paint her nails.
• Let her take her life’s decision.
• Always keep your promises.
• Never take her for granted.
• Keep your male ego aside and say sorry when you are wrong.
• Call her, just to ask “have you had your lunch?”

▌VOCABULARY:

• dilemma：situation in which one has to choose between two undesirable things or courses of action 进退两难的窘境; 进退维谷的困境:be in/place sb in a dilemma 陷入[置某人於]进退两难之境；
• me-time：指的是自我享受时间，非正式表达；
• taunt：~ sb (with sth) try to provoke sb with scornful or critical remarks; jeer at sb 试图以嘲笑或批评惹恼某人; 嘲弄某人: They taunted him with cowardice/with being a coward. 他们讥笑他是胆小鬼。