聚光灯效应的困扰
Spotlight effect
The belief that others are paying more attention to our appearance and behavior than they really are.
illusion of transparency
The illusion that our concealed emotions leak out and can be easily read by others.
我们高估了自己的被关注度；
-部分人会拒绝公众场合的亲密行为,或者感到非常尴尬。
过度担心自己的内在感受被察觉；
-公众场合的演讲或表演应该注意这点
Self-interest
Self-interest colors our social judgment. When problems arise in a close relationship, we usually attribute more responsibility to our partners than to ourselves. When things go well at home or work or play, we see ourselves as more responsible.
自私自利
出现问题后，把更大责任推给他人；
事情进展好，把更多功劳归给自己；
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